1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Surrender is not a Ranger Word! Neither is retreat. However, in the context of our marriages, sometimes we need to slow down and make some azimuth adjustments to make the most of our marriages. In this context, a retreat is authorized and often necessary! So, TRF is hosting our third annual marriage retreat.
This event targets Rangers in the Pacific Northwest. However, it is not limited to that region and will be filled on a first-come, first-served basis. Tentatively, we expect a few active-duty couples from 2/75 in attendance. The entire marriage enrichment event is fully funded by TRF. The only cost for participants is to cover your travel to and from the event (travel scholarships are limited but possible, so ask!). All lodging, food, retreat materials, and extracurricular activities will be covered by TRF. This event is limited to six couples and is designed for married couples who are seeking some quality time together to intentionally connect and deepen their relationships.
The topics covered during the retreat will be Oneness, Personality Types, Danger Signs and Time Out, Effective Communication, and Events, Issues and Hidden Issues. Let us be honest, most of these topics cause issues in all our marriages from time to time. So, it is helpful to develop some strategies to address these issues before they become insurmountable obstacles. So, whether you are in a season of stability or just seeking growth and repair in particular areas of your marriage, this weekend will foster a greater understanding of each other and how to support flourishing as a couple.
The venue is genuinely nice. It is a beach house right on the Puget Sound, right along the beautiful Des Moines, WA boardwalk. Every couple will have a private bedroom, and most will have a private bath. There will be five group sessions and some breakout opportunities, including hiking, boating, and an intentional date night with your spouse, etc. It is just a chance to reconnect with other Ranger couples, enjoy some fall weather/scenery, and world-class accommodations. Dates are 23-25 October 2026.
My wife Gaye and I will be the primary retreat facilitators. Our marriage is not perfect, but we have learned a bit about how to fight on (no pun intended) to the objective and complete the mission in the past 38+ years of marriage (22+ years of which were spent in the Regiment or other SOF units). Gaye and I are Christians, and we cannot help you without sharing some of what God has done for us in our marriage. We are not going to beat you over the head and shoulders with the Bible; however, be prepared to hear about how we believe God designed us to live in a marriage relationship.
This is a marriage retreat only--not an intensive marriage seminar, so please do not sign up if you and your spouse are in a situation involving domestic violence, addiction, or other serious relational issues. If any of these situations fit you, please contact me (phone and email info below), and I will do what I can to assist you with finding a more intensive program with highly trained clinical practitioners who are able to provide the extra help you need.
Please contact me ASAP at the contact info below if you are interested in attending the next TRF Marriage Retreat with your spouse- as I said, space is limited.
RLTW!
Dan
TRF Spiritual Fitness Director
d.knight@threerangersfoundation.org
601-988-5087